LIE: I can live the Christian life on my own

LIE: I can live the Christian life on my own

Lie:      I can live the Christian life on my own.
Truth: We can live the Christian life only in concert with other believers in Christ.

Life Together, Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s little book on community, is a beautiful portrait of the communal life of an ‘underground’ seminary in 1930s Finkenwalde, Poland, where students shared their lives in Christian simplicity. We love these idyllic glimpses, and think wistfully of them as quaint, but outdated and impractical. The reality is, most often, we simply live Life Alone.
More accurately though, we tolerate a love-hate relationship with the alone-together dilemma . . .

LIE: Appearing to care and caring are the same thing

LIE: Appearing to care and caring are the same thing

Lie:      Appearing to care and caring are the same thing.
Truth: Appearing to care is vanity – we must actually care.

. . . Self-forgetfulness, the ability to be unaware of ourselves, is the true attitude of our ‘alms’. Jesus said it: “But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. That your charitable deed may be in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly.” Matthew 6:3–4
Giving alms in secret is loving in such a way that we are hardly aware of the performance of it ourselves; we simply do it, so focused on the person in need, that we fade into the background in our own minds.
How do we achieve this self-forgetfulness? It can only be gained . . .

LIE: People with same-sex attractions are rebellious, are mistakes and are rejected by God

LIE: People with same-sex attractions are rebellious, are mistakes and are rejected by God

Lie: People with same-sex attractions are rebellious, are mistakes and are rejected by God.
Truth: People with same-sex attractions are not rejected by God and may be modern-day eunuchs.

God made every human being on earth as a unique masterpiece – no two of us are alike. We differ in so many ways: in our outward appearance, our personality, our likes and dislikes, our health conditions and more. That said, most of us still have two eyes, a nose and a mouth – though a few of us do not. . . . And most of us are clearly born as a boy or a girl, yet (surprise!) some of us are not. We call these babies hermaphrodites or now, ‘intersex’ (those who have characteristics of both male and female organs, genitalia or chromosomes).
These exceptions are a reality in our world; no one would dispute this. But let me go one step farther: most of us grow up with an opposite-sex attraction, but (again, surprise!) some of us do not.

LIE: The meaning of life is an unfathomable mystery

LIE: The meaning of life is an unfathomable mystery

Lie:      The meaning of life is an unfathomable mystery.
Truth: The core of life’s meaning is clear: to adore and glorify God.
No doubt about it, life is mysterious. Science, or rather Scientism, has worked overtime to extract all mystery out of it and reduce life to organic compounds, processing and electro-chemical signaling. Yet the average person simply doesn’t believe it – it’s quite unbelievable as a ‘faith.’ What we’re left with is a confusing emptiness, a mystery of a mystery. But God never intended it to be so.

LIE: I can become a god, part 2

LIE: I can become a god, part 2

The technological revolution, in all its dimensions – media, transportation, agriculture, communications, finance, health, you name it – has transformed our landscape and extended man’s reach and power beyond anything that could have been conceived. Our combined humanity and the different kinds of groups of humanity – nations, corporations, military branches, federal and state agencies, universities and schools – can now exert power and control over practically all forms of human activity, be it weather, food production, healthcare or communications. Man has created systems of control, systems of systems, that are unprecedented in history. . . .
We know this, but so what?
The problem is that humans claim this as an advancement, the elevation of what it means to be natively human (that’s the point – no other kind of human exists). We have become greater, more powerful, more capable. This is now who we are. Man has made man greater, without God.

LIE: I can become a god, part 1

LIE: I can become a god, part 1

Lie: I can become a god.
Truth: I can become a king under God.

This is the oldest lie, the original lie and therefore the most fundamental, most integrative and silently influential of all deceptions. What may sound ludicrous and therefore harmless – who in their right mind would think they can become a god?! – turns out to be the most insidious because it flies so far under the radar. In order to see just how dangerous this lie is, we must start at the beginning . . .

LIE: No matter what I do, nothing changes

LIE: No matter what I do, nothing changes

Lie:      No matter what I do, nothing changes.
Truth: Actions (and in-actions) have consequences, but eventually everything changes.

In one sense of course, Solomon was right — there is nothing new under the sun. The generations, the cycles of the sun, the winds, the waters, they all continue their cyclical courses; but in another sense, everything is constantly being renewed. Yes, each generation has its births and deaths, its marriages and children, its coming and going. Yet each generation, each person is uniquely and constantly changing – one of life’s most perplexing ironies. But we feel Solomon’s weariness . . .

LIE: Aging is bad and is to be avoided

LIE: Aging is bad and is to be avoided

Lie:      Aging is bad and is to be avoided.
Truth: Although aging is the natural process of death, Christians have no need to fear it.

Aging is nothing to relish. It’s true, no one ever wants to grow old and die, but growing old is now regarded much differently than it once was. Before the advent of Botox®, Rogaine®, ‘low-T’ and the plethora of geriatric pharmaceutical drugs, growing old was an inevitable and accepted part of life. But no more. Aging and its symptoms are dreaded and avoided if at all possible.

LIE: I can never do enough

LIE: I can never do enough

Lie: I can never do enough.
Truth: Doing God’s will is enough.

Today, most of us live in a sea of unfinished projects, good intentions and expectations of others. We’re aware, at least vaguely, of hundreds of untapped opportunities and unmet needs. It appears that, if only our abilities and the world’s needs could be matched, all would be well. We know we have limits. The problem is, we have trouble discerning how far those limits can go. Consequently, many people live in a perpetual state of low-level guilt – false guilt that is – because they cannot . . .

LIE: I am my brain

LIE: I am my brain

Lie: I am my brain.
Truth: I fluently exercise my brain.

The three-pound organ that crowns our heads and sits behind our faces, is a living wonder. Today, it’s the object of an extraordinary amount of scientific research that is probing to discover how this small, whitish, cheese-like substance could create the grand mystery of consciousness.
And while biologists try to understand its workings, computer scientists try to reverse-engineer . . .